Everyone wants to have a great date night but may not know exactly how to plan one or even come up with ideas for them. Well, it really doesn’t have to be so hard. I’m showing you 5 easy ways to keep your date nights simple, so you can focus on having a good time with your love interest.
How To Keep Date Night Simple
This past weekend, I was reminded about the Zuvaa Collection pop up shop tour event that was happening at our local mall. I put it on my calendar a few months back but totally forgot about it. One quick mention to hubby and he was all for it!
Now, I knew he wasn’t interested in a fashion collection one bit but he was eager to do something that I would enjoy, so we rolled with it.
If you’d like to check out the Zuvaa Collection tour, it’ll be at Essence Fest on June 30 – July 2nd. Click here for other locations.
Create a running list of date ideas and keep them somewhere visible. Anytime you think of a great idea, just add it to your list.
Here are a few ideas I shared in an article I wrote for The Sexy Single Mommy a few years back. These are great examples of planning ahead and brainstorming.
- If one or both of you are trying to live a more active and healthy lifestyle. Try to switch things up a bit. Try something new like maybe going on a fitness date. Incorporate things like a new dance class, long walks, bike rides or anything that will require vigorous physical activity. Show them you’re interested in their health & well-being too.
- If you or your mate are constantly busy and need to reconnect, something as simple as a romantic living room floor picnic might help restore the bond. Fondue, wine and some soft jazz can work wonders.
- If you spend a lot of time taking care of young children, you may find your mind is occupied with child-ish things. Planning a date that is more adult themed and sophisticated may be necessary. Wine tastings, Art Crawls or anything cultural can make you and your partner feel grown up again.
I know I told you earlier to be spontaneous and you should be. But some dates will require a bit more planning. Planning should be quick and kept to a 10-15 minute maximum.
For example, if you know you’re gonna do an Art Crawl this weekend, you can take a few minutes to research whether or not there will be free transportation. If so, you can write down what times the shuttle buses run or when you’ll need to be at each location for exclusive events.
Don’t over plan or over think things
This goes back to what I was saying about planning ahead. Keep your planning time short. Don’t over think your date. Some of the best dates are the ones with room to grow. Don’t plan every minute and second of your time. Just go with the flow.
Pick restaurants with multiple offerings
On our last date, hubby picked Cheesecake Factory as our restaurant. We haven’t had a chance to eat there in a while because it’s always packed, super popular around holidays and the waits are normally an hour or more. But we both love the variety of options on the menu, so we both get to go crazy on the foods we like.
Well, since we were going on an early evening date this time, the wait time was only 15 minutes!! I was down for that.
This Typhoon Punch was on point. It’s Absolut Raspberry Vodka with Passion Fruit, Pineapple and Orange Juice. I’m a light weight when it comes to alcohol and this kicked in for me right away. It was really delicious. I think I might try to attempt to make this at home this summer.
If you already follow me, then you know all about my foodie lifestyle. Good eats and drinks are a must for me. A date just isn’t good if I didn’t get a chance to try something delectable. Like these Crispy Crab Wontons at Cheesecake Factory. Man, these were good ! Not quite the touch of sweet you get from biting into Crab Rangoon, but these were delicious nonetheless. I especially liked the Chili sauce that went along with these. I’m not a fan of heat. But this sauce was perfect. Just the right amount of kick without the burn.
This is the Mac and Cheese Burger. It’s charbroiled and topped with fried macaroni and cheese balls and gooey cheddar cheese sauce. Yum!! Served with lettuce, tomato, pickles and onion on the side. They forgot my mayo, but I wasn’t mad. I wish the meat had a bit more seasoning for added flavor, but overall it was a really good burger.
I hope these tips will inspire you to have more date nights and spontaneous adventures together. It’s really not about where you go or what you choose to eat. It’s all about spending quality time alone together. Relationships and marriages are never cookie-cutter so do what works for you and your home/life situation. The point is to make time for each other.
When’s the last time you had a great date? What did you do?